AI wants to automate dating

What if avatars could be your wingman or chat on dating apps for you?

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A bevy of new tools are enabling people to leverage AI to up their dating app game and sound better in messages. It’s still early days for the features, so there’s definitely a stigma on sharing that you used AI to score a date. But watch for Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and others to roll out their own versions (as a paid feature, of course) to give people the option to take the pressure off of stranger-to-stranger communication and automate their dating life.

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What if avatars could be your wingman or chat on dating apps for you? Some apps are trying to make that a reality.

  • Rizz,, and Keys AI help users come up with opening lines and respond to messages. And others are taking their chats straight to ChatGPT.
  • YourMove also can be used to craft optimized dating profiles — think of it as SEO for your love life.
  • Personal.aiandSnack let users create personalized avatars that can do all the chatting for you.

AI users told WaPo that apps mostly made them sound more clever, thoughtful, and forward (which helped set up dates faster). Others said that it would make them sound tone-deaf or just end relationships before they began. 

So, you know, your mileage may vary.

David Vendrell

Born and raised a stone’s-throw away from the Everglades, David left the Florida swamp for the California desert. Over-caffeinated, he stares at his computer too long either writing the TFP newsletter or screenplays. He is repped by Anonymous Content.


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